The Cross-Dresser, The Domina, and Role-Playing

Although you may remain the domina during the cross-dressing playtime, the cross-dresser is always in some sort of role: he is playing the role of a woman. For him, cross-dressing and role-playing is an inseparable combination in the BDSM world, while for you, you may just remain the mistress during the entire scenario. But whether you remain in one of your domina forms, or take on a whole new persona, these two aspects lend themselves easily to each other. In addition to the different personas you can assume, his desires can range from total beauty/girlfriend scenes to forced feminization scenes, which incorporate harder aspects into the scenario. My experience has been that for those who prefer a total beauty session I am "the Domina and Diva,” while those who wish forced feminization have more elaborate roles in mind for me as the “Mistress.” Some roles I suggest that will keep the emphasis on cross-dressing are: procuress/slut, older neighbor/young neighbor, queen/subject (think of yourself as the ancient queen Dido, who dressed Hercules as one of her serving maids lor many years), mistress/maid, and any number of girlfriend scenarios.

Of course, there are many other roles to enact, but in many of the others the emphasis is not on cross-dressing, but rather use cross-dressing as a means to an end, or as a spontaneous inclusion into a role-playing scene. Many of these roles employ forced feminization to subjugate their submissives. The prime aspect here is not to be made into a woman, but to be stripped and humiliated, possibly turned into an object of ridicule. Scenarios like this, just one of the infinite combinations of role-playing with crossdressing as a secondary aspect, for discipline, humiliation.