Sexy Smothering and Face Sitting in femdom

This has nothing to do with putting a bag over his head, or choking him, or trying to hang him by the neck from the closet door. What would be sexy about that? This is sexy, it can be used as a reward or as “punishment,” and your regular partner will go absolutely wild for it. This sweet aspect could make up an entire playtime all by itself. First, you’ll need lots and lots of undies, from full back white little old lady panties all the way down to the sexiest of g-strings.

This is the game. Put the smallest undergarment on first and then in size order, from the smallest to the largest, keep adding undies. You can puL whatever you like over all these undies, or nothing at all. His punishment, whether he is your pampering servant or your toy to be tormented and teased, will be to accept your smothering him by sitting on his face in all your panties. The first time you announce that this is to be his punishment, also proclaim that you will remain seated until the count of twenty. As the evening progresses, each time you punish him, you increase the count by five or ten. The average man can hold his breath for at least sixty seconds if he has a good lungful of air. and some air will still be coming in. For the most part, the danger of accidental asphyxiation is very slim unless you are overweight and really do smother him. And because you already know' he needs a safe signal when his mouth is otherwise in use, he has his bandana to wave at you, or keys to jingle at you, just in case.

After he demonstrates his acceptance of your power over him, you can reward him by shedding one pair of panties each time you sit on his face. If he fails in his duties, add on the last pair of panties you took off.

Face Sitting

At first glance, this may seem to be the same as sexy smothering, but this is only for those who are in the most intimate of circumstances, not for casual play. Why? Because in this game, you don't start out with all those panties, you start up in only a g-string, preferably of latex, leather, or PVC. And a very liny g-string at that. Add other wardrobe as you see fit. I have a floor-length black boucle knit sweater coat, trimmed cuff and hem in silver mesh, that I like to wear over this attire, which I use to tease him until I am ready to take it off. A glimpse of leg here, a flash of cleavage there, a show of paganesque jewelry on my wrists when my sleeves fall back—just to get his imagination going.

Since the lack of undergarments makes this game so intimate, it may involve much more intimacy than you care to bestow upon him. For me, the rough play is what makes it more exciting, and less intimate. Conquering him, knocking him down, wrestling him to the floor, knocking him around, getting him into a head lock with my legs, all these and more take face sitting out of the playful realm of sexy smothering. He can breathe through all those panties but this way, more of his air supply is cut off, and for some there is the humiliation factor in this. But then the thing he most desires from you is so close, so tantalizing, that you may want to tape his mouth shut and cut a breathing hole for him so he doesn’t get fresh with his tongue without your permission.