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Spitting upon him is a wonderful tool of humiliation, both physical and emotional. Think of the statement being spat upon makes, think of the emotional impact the action carries. And spit can be used as a lubricant for his cock as well. Who could ask for more? But a domina is a lady, you point out, and ladies don't spit. Now they do, so you'll just have to get over it and leant how to do it by using your whole body to accomplish the desired effect. Unless you have the knack for it, in the beginning most of your efforts will land on your chin, or in your lap, on your car door, or on some other undignified and inappropriate surface. For most women, spitting is not natural or easily accomplished. But with practice, distance spitting can be very satisfying, and there are other types of spitting.
To me, distance spitting is the best. Not because you are spitting far, but because distance spitting is the most forceful kind. Yes, I know the scene in Titanic where Leonardo Di Caprio's character taught Kate Winslet’s character to spit is a bit played out, but the mechanics of the spit were very well explained and more important, competently demonstrated. Getting a good one to fly just isn't as easy as it looks. Unfortunately, practicing with cherry pits and the like skews the physics involved because your saliva weighs so much less and has no shape. A cherry pit is actually a good projectile because it possesses some aerodynamic qualities, and has weight and shape. A cherry pit flies very well, even if it is your first attempt, and you can aim it. Practice with a few pits to get the tricky cheek action down, an action that requires you to puff your cheeks out and blow to expel your wad. But don’t overdo it with the pits; they will spoil you, and he doesn’t want to have cherry pits spit at him.
Saliva is not nearly as cooperative. As I said, it has little weight and no shape; it also has air bubbles in it and is not solid, So what you have to do first is gather a decent-to-large amount of saliva in your mouth. II you have a cough, and can hawk up a goober, or “lungy-mooga’’ as it was called in my wild youth, all the better. Mucus and phlegm at least have weight and some sort of shape, even if they are slimy and squiggly, and your mouthful will fly better with them than without them. After you have accumulated enough to make a nice projectile, curl up the sides of your longue to make a roadway for the wad. This is where it can get tricky, because now the time has come for you to actually spit upon him. As I said earlier, you must have the puff-the-cheeks-out-and-blow action down pat, but it also is a great help if your whole body, especially your upper body, can come into play to produce a worthy projectile. Returning to the Titanic, remember how Kate Winslet first grabbed a hold of the railing, then pulled back, and when she expelled her wad, she leaned forward into it to give it more fly? Of course, you won’t have a railing to hold on to but you can grab him by both shoulders and use him as your railing, He should love this because when you do that, he has become a willing and active participant, not just a passive receiver.
But what if, after all your practice, you cannot mistress the distancespitting technique. Never fear! More ways to spit upon him are here. And, you can "cheat" on the distance spitting. How do you do that? Part of the reason your spittle won’t fly is because gravity is working against you, so you need to make gravity work in your behalf instead. Lie him down on the floor, the bed, or the bondage table and straddle him, pinning his arms down with your legs. Pull your hair back so you don't get any spit in it, bend your head over his face, gather up your wad, and blow. By blowing down instead of out, gravity will become your friend.
This same position can be used for another type of spitting: dangle-and-tease spitting. Your brother may have done this to you when you were little. This is when you pin the other person down, make like you are going to spit, letting the wad bubble on then dangle from your lips, then suddenly suck the whole wad back into your mouth, laughing at his face which is all scrunched up in anticipation. This can get to be very funny as he squirms fruitlessly never knowing when the next wad will land.
Then there is the dry-spit. I know, it sounds like an oxymoron, but it isn’t. The dry spit is a bit more dramatic than the wet spit. The dry spit conveys to the receiver that he is not fit to receive your spit, rendering him worthless. The dry spit is a terrible insult, an act that expresses disgust, and thus very humiliating. It takes little to no practice, does not require a wad or good aim, and you don't need to put your whole body into it to do it. All you need is your lips, and the proper look on your face. Look haughty, aloof, disgusted, look him up and down, whatever, then squeeze your lips together and make plosive noise, like when you make the sound of the letter p.