Facial femdom humilation techniques

The strap-on! The perfect accoutrement for she-who-would-be-he; for she who enjoys using it to intimidate, humiliate, or threaten the male; for she who believes it empowers her; and for she who just thinks it is a hoot to have a dick. Depending on when you speak with me, I fall in to all of those categories, and then some. You may already have a strap-on harness (a must for this type of play) and if you do, you have the necessary protuberances for it. If this is your first time experimenting with this type of play and you don’t want to invest in a harness, you can still play many games with it. But this type of strap-on play is not for anal penetration, its purpose is humiliation.

As you know, many men feel threatened by the presence of another penis, any penis, and now you are sporting one. Probably much larger than his, much thicker than his, and maybe in a color or pattern, rather than flesh toned. I like the black ones best myself, but I also have other colors just in case I am wearing a black outfit. I want him to see the thing! I want his eyes to be glued to it when I walk, and when I sit, I sit with my legs wide open, and play with it like it was real. Keep him on his knees so every time you walk around him, your cock is bobbing right in his face. Grasp it in your hand and rub it on his face. Talk to him in a "loving" voice about how much of it he is going to take down his throat for you. Slap him in the face with it, guiding it with your hand at the base and using your hips to propel it.

Obviously, another thing to do with a dildo and strap-on is to have him “worship” it. Which means, of course, that he is to suck it, and suck it good. If this doesn't knock him down a peg or two, nothing will! I sit in my chair, my legs open, and "invite" him in close, so close his chest is touching the edge of my chair. Then I tell him to just give it a "little lick." The first “little lick” is exactly that, little and tentative, as if the thing were made of poison, not silicone. This does not please me so I grab him by the hair and pull his head back. Then I invade his personal space and gel right in his face. I use whatever threat strikes me at the time; often the threat of force gets his little tongue wagging. After licking, I want sucking. I want to be sucked; I mean really sucked. Sucked like he used to exhort his vanilla girlfriends to suck him. No mercy.

I command him to "show" me his best effort, meaning that I wish to see how much of my cock he can get in his mouth. Let me tell you, for people who never shut up and who can get two hot dogs into their mouths at once at a sporting event, his initial attempts at sucking my cock are nothing short of pathetic. What does he use that mouth for? (Well, it does have one good use that I can think of, but we re not talking about that here.) After he has “swallowed" as much of my cock as he can, I tell him to withdraw his mouth. But one of my fingers has remained on the diido, in the exact position his mouth was in last. He doesn’t know this. I ask him, "So, how much of my cock do you think you swallowed?" His respectful answer, "Oh, six inches, diva," is a gross exaggeration of the actual area encompassed, which is now to be evinced by my finger. Two to two and a half inches at most! Which gives me another reason to humiliate him about his inadequacy, his inability to please a woman such as myself, and blah blah blah.

If he has gone along with the game this far, maybe it is time to play a little rougher. Say something about showing him what you expect, grab a handful of hair on either side of his head and force his face, mouth open, down onto your cock Hold his head down on it and thrust your hips, forcing it down his throat. This is called "face fucking," and there is not supposed to be any pleasure in it for him. Or, you can use his hair to pump his head up and down, and don’t worry if he gags a little and some snot comes out of his nose. That is all part of giving good head. Isn’t that what he expected of women before he became your personal piece of property, your submissive, your slave? What was that I said earlier about payback . .. ? Now tell him to lake as much of it as he can into his mouth and compare the first attempt to the second. If his second attempt was no better than the first, repeat, repeat, repeat, until you have the desired results.

But what if his best attempt is still no more than 3 inches? Only 3 inches insults me so he must be punished for displeasing me. And why bother to get up and get your favorite instruments for inflicting pain? Pain is not the game here; the game here is humiliation. And you have the perfect punishment dangling right there between your legs! Making sure he knows what he is being punished for, I remove the diido from the harness and throw it across the room. Then I tell him to “fetch,” By that I mean that I want him to cross the room on all fours and bring the diido back to me in his mouth, with no assistance at all from his hands The first time I commanded him to do this, he balked. I was in no mood for "games within the game." I crossed the room in a couple of strides, picked up the dildo, and beat him about the face and shoulders with it. Then I returned to my chair, called him to me, and again told him to "fetch." I guess he preferred bringing it to me in his mouth to being beaten with the thing.