The Leg Man: Rituals for Feet and Legs

The foot fetishist is almost, but not quite, inseparable from the leg man. The leg mans favorite time of year is the spring, when the female comes out of hiding and the weather gets warm enough for the ladies to start wearing their pumps and hosiery again, before shedding the hosiery altogether.

The BDSM leg fetishist craves a shapely leg, the delicate bones of the ankle, the rotating cap of the knee, the surprisingly erogenous zone behind each knee, the muscles of the thigh and of the calf; he wants to massage, lick, and kiss the object of his desire, and offer it the worship it deserves. As you can see, the leg fetishist and the foot fetishist are closely related because both of them will have interest in the extension to the original object of desire. His desires could include service-oriented tasks, like shaving your legs and massaging them, his desires could be that you get him in a leg lock and toss him around on the floor, or that you hold his head between your legs as you flog his ass. Maybe he will enjoy all of these things, and all of the possibilities in between.

Fetishists, all fetishists, as much as I love them, need to branch out to keep their fantasies alive and fresh, and be capable of reinventing themselves. Which means that at sometime, new aspects will need to be introduced during playtime. Some foot and/or leg fetishists will want to progress to harder aspects, perhaps a beating before being allowed near the object of his desire, or being put in tight bondage while teased with your feet. Maybe some CBT and nipple play would get his motor running. For those who like to keep it sensual but do wish to employ other aspects during their fetishistic playtime, combining some light bondage, objectification, slave training, cross-dressing, role-playing, or any number of things with a leg and/or foot fetish is a way to keep things interesting for both of you.

Rituals for Feet and Legs

If we removed the rituals from BDSM, part of the fun of playing these games in the midnight purple world behind the veil would be gone. And, as you have read and experienced, each aspect of BDSM has its own rituals. By this time you have made up rituals of your own. You have your homage ritual, your footbath ritual, your foot massage ritual, and maybe a boot/shoe, hairbrushing, collaring, and discipline ritual as well. Your feet rituals were probably the first rituals you created. But a leg ritual? Other than the obvious massage, the only other option that quickly comes to mind is a shaving ritual. Lets hope he has steady hands!

You can gel to the leg-shaving ritual in a number ways: during your regular bath, after your shower, or just by itself. Of course, I find "just by itself" to be the most interesting of the three because I am into humiliation, and doing it this way fulfills my need because there is the least pleasure in it for him, although the objects of his desire are right there in his hand. I make him climb into the bathtub naked and run the water to the proper temperature. I make him test the water with his penis; if it is too hot or too cold, he will be the first one to find out. I remove only the clothing necessary to expose my legs from the knees down (l don’t have hair above my knees), then I sit down on the side of the tub with my feet in it. I order him to use a nice soft cloth and mild soap to work up a pretty white foamy lather on the first leg. When that is done to my satisfaction, I direct him, stroke by stroke, how to shave my legs.

Now picture this, not as sentences, but as a photo or short video. I am almost completely dressed, sitting on the side of a tub, while inside the tub, a naked man shaves my legs with all due humility and respect as he executes my instructions to the stroke. I consider this to be a head game, even though the discomforts he suffers are physical. I remain dressed and dry' while he gets to be cold, wet, and naked in the tub while he shaves my legs. It impresses upon him his position as my submissive. This meets my needs. But he does get to touch the objects of his obsession, so his needs are being met, too. This scenario of the naked slave in the tub is also great for a quick footbath.

This game may not work for everyone; it greatly depends on whether you grow' back soft short hair or hard stubble on your legs after you shave. If you fall into the stubble category, eventually your leg hair may grow to be long and soft enough for this to work but w'hy suffer through that? This is a game for those who grow back short silky leg hair, those ladies who can go for three weeks without shaving their legs and no one would even notice. I am one of those lucky, lucky, people with only one blond hair per every square inch of skin, and I have never needed to shave above my knees. So I invented another little ritual. I sent him to a department store to buy a little silver box without any lining. He did well; he came back with a pretty heartshaped silver box that was perfect for my intentions. I put on an evening gown and gorgeous pumps; I attached my longest hairpiece and outdid myself with the makeup. Then I led him into the bathroom where the light is best and handed him my nice sharp hair-cutting scissors. His orders were to cut each hair off as close to the skin as possible with the scissors and catch it in the little silver box.

I kept the little silver box in my possession and whenever I had grown enough hair, we would enact this little ritual. When the box was full, after many many hours of fine service, I gave him the box as a memento of our experience together.