Flagellation punishment, BDSM flogging
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Flagellation or flogging is similar to spanking. It is defined as the act of methodically beating or whipping the human body. Unlike the more rudimentary and economical spanking, flagellation requires instruments. These include the cat o’ nine tails, rods, switches, bullwhips, and canes. (Though usually I refer to using a cane as “caning.”)
Historically, flogging was used as punishment on unwilling subjects. It still is in some places. Some religions practice self-flagellation (like certain constituents of the Opus Dei as seen in the Tom Hanks vehicle The Da Vinci Code). When flogging is submitted to willingly, it becomes part of BDSM.
Flog with Care!
One thing to remember when flogging that special someone: Careful where you do it! Places where you should never flog include the face, head, neck, fingers, toes, and over healing skin. Be aware of where the major organs are located, especially the kidneys, which are located toward the lower back and are therefore susceptible during flagellation—especially if your Dom lacks aim and coordination. If you think your Dom is coming a bit too close, say your safe word immediately.
In terms of where it’s okay to flog lightly, the lower legs, arms, inner arms, breasts, upper shoulders, top of the ass, and genitals are acceptable. (Keep in mind that if your sub has breast implants, you might want to avoid flogging or whipping them entirely, as there is nothing sexy about a leaky implant.)
When it comes to heavy flogging, the buttocks are like air bags, able to take a whack delivered with momentum. (And, as mentioned previously, ass cheeks are an erogenous zone so have at ’em.) Other acceptable spots include the upper back on each side of the spine (leave that spine alone!), the thighs, and lower shoulders. Again, aim is crucial, so practice, practice, practice!
Mr. Hall shared a helpful tip: Use pillows. If your sub is lying face down and you are worried about accidentally flogging his or her most vulnerable parts, you can gently place a pillow over your partner’s lower back and the backs of his or her knees. (You never want to flog joints.)